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[yagathai]

I posted this originally to the SMOF list but I feel like it might be useful in a broader context as well. I'm certainly not the first person to say these things, but maybe I'm the first one saying it where certain people will hear it?

I've got a concrete tip to try to make conventions an ever so slightly more welcoming, diversity-friendly space:  Stop using "politically incorrect" in earnest.  And frankly, considering how bad irony seems to translate across cultural boundaries in this context, you should probably stop using it altogether.  Certainly stop using it in program descriptions or official convention materials, which I've seen at least a half-dozen times in as many years in the conventions that I've attended. Reading it in those contexts makes me feel like I'm chewing tinfoil.

Am I saying "politically incorrect" is an offensive term? Not at all. But in my experience, it is used nowadays to near-exclusivity by people being angry that they not "allowed" to be bigoted in public without social repercussions.  It's a signifier, a dogwhistle to the racist right (whether or not the user so intends it), a little bit like the Confederate flag and the state's rights movements being signifiers of country-fried white American bigotry. If someone comes up to me on the street with a Confederate flag trucker cap and a pamphlet about state's rights, I'm assuming that they have a white hood in the closet and an emergency cross-burning kit in the trunk. Is that certain? By no means. Am I risking throwing the non-racist, Alabama-loving strict constitutionalist out with the Klan's bathwater? Yes. But I'll take those odds.

Similarly, if someone starts ranting to me about "political correctness", I'm going to class them in the same rough pool as "doesn't believe in evolution" and "thinks minorities don't read books": Probably an idiot, odds of racist tendencies also very high.

Try this little experiment out for yourself: Whenever you hear someone use "political correctness" in a sentence, substitute "consideration for the feelings of others". For 
"political incorrect" substitute "totally inconsiderate of the feelings of others". If the sentence makes the speaker sound like a jerk the second way, it also probably makes them sound like a jerk the first way. Consider:

"They made me change my T-shirt because it was politically incorrect"

"I was denied a promotion because I wouldn't kowtow at the altar of political correctness"

"Calling me out for making a dirty joke to my friend in a public space is just political correctness gone crazy"

"I'm not going to police my vocabulary just because you think it's politically incorrect".

Xposted to tumblr, if that's your fancy: http://yagathai.tumblr.com/post/68902805120/i-posted-this-originally-to-the-smof-list-but-i

Comments

[ildrinn.livejournal.com]

But you people are allowed to use those words! That's just reverse bigot-ism!

*cue 400-page thread*

[onefishonly.livejournal.com]

Oh man, this is such a great "here is why people may roll their eyes when you say 'politically correct'" post. It's easier to ignore that than address it anew each time I hear it, even for people I'd like to bother to have that conversation with, and 101-level copy/pastable like this is sometimes actually a bit hard to come by. But this is perfect and not at all convention/"SMOF"-specific! I know some people in my life who may see it, next time they use that particular phrase as part of some questionable argument. Thanks for taking the time/effort to write it up.

Oh, and ALSO bravo on actually confronting it there on the list!

[parrismcb.livejournal.com]

it is of no comfort to me to know that there's still a high percentage of absolute jerks who mock and belittle the long-standing problems of hostility towards people who are not WSM in the sub-culture I have lived in most of my adult life.

times shoulda changed along frackin' time ago.

[regina-of-york.livejournal.com]

"times shoulda changed along frackin' time ago"

What Parris said.

[kylecassidy.livejournal.com]

I have hopes that they are being boiled out of the mainstream and as the steam rises and condenses and gets bled off into some jar of collected jerk things will get better for everyone else.

[mme-hardy.livejournal.com]

Well said.

I always translate "Not to be politically incorrect, but" as "I am about to be extremely rude, and I want to preempt your complaining about it."

[pinkhairedcyn.livejournal.com]

Yes this times one million.

[caudelac.livejournal.com]

/high five.